You are beautiful[

 You are beautiful

(By Pashmeen Kaur ) 

Image By:- Kanishka Sharma

                                                      

INTRODUCTION 

Every one has a different definition of being beautiful some think that beauty exist in skin and appearance and on the hand some people think that beauty comes from within. In my opinion girls and a lot of women are being judged on the basis of the weight and skin colour they have and due to that some of the girls have very less self esteem. Everyone has different definition of beauty and it does not mean that if they do not like you, you are not beautiful there is quote which says” everyone cannot like peaches some people hate having that fruit.” It does not mean that peach is not good fruit it means no matter how juicy how nice a peach is some people do not like the taste of it and it is fine. What makes you beautiful does not depends on others opinion. To me beauty is not something that does not pleases the eyes but it is something that pleases or delights the sense and mind. People starts comparing themselves with models on social media or magazine without realising that they have gone through so much editing to look like this. Reality is those models are humans and have flaws to be insecure about. Kim Kardashian a model has gone through some skin allergy on her forehead but she hides on social platforms to look perfect and she openly discuss about in an interview. The society should not trust what they see on social platforms it might not even be true. We all become so harsh on ourselves that we forget how beautiful god has made us. Society should not focus on the appearance of a person but should focus on the characteristic that person carries. Not only girls but even boy wear a make on their face of not being real. I strongly believe that beauty does not comes from wearing expensive make or expensive clothes it comes in simplicity and choosing something that is right for oneself. It makes me feel sad that people want to change themselves just look pretty and beautiful exactly how the society wants to see us. I used to have friend back in school who always used to talk about getting a plastic surgery so that she could maintain her charm but people often forget every age has its own charm. In my old age I want to be happy and healthy why would someone really opt for plastic surgery. 

Hence, to look beautiful we all should fall in love with ourselves and not with things that people expect us to do. You should in the end know that you yourself are enough to fight any battle. Although it is tough to deal with negative remarks of people for you but trust me in the end it does not matter as people forget what they said to you. If we do not have pretty smile with cute dimples it does not mean that we are not beautiful it clearly means that we are different. Even when someone tries to criticise someone, we should stop them by making them realise that even they do not have perfect body, smile or skin colour. 

CONCLUSION 

Whatever people say let them say I known it easy to write and in reality, it is difficult to practice but you should constantly remind yourself that you are beautiful no matter people say about you. I have been judged a million of time cried over it million of times but in the end when I fell in love with myself I realised that it was not worth crying over comments like that because everyone cannot like you and the people who like me are the real ones. It took me years to realise myself how beautiful I am it is not a overnight process give yourself time and have some patience work on your flaws which you think are not good about you.

 

 

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