Success is the Best Revenge

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Success is the Best Revenge

(By Neha Soni ) 


Image By:- Darshika Singh


Failure happens. All of your toil and planning sometimes winds up in flames. Your financial dreams are tested in these dark times and to make it worse, people enjoy your pain. People are jealous of other people’s success. The people closest to you may be the worst, secretly wishing for your misfortune. Building financial success is one thing because the market claws higher, over-spenders of the world secretly pray for the day when the market collapses or a minimum of your investments takes a big haircut. 

Failure happens quite more often than success therefore haters have plenty to brag on. Your financial investments will have many down days, some remarkably so. 

All these feelings, unfortunately, are counterproductive. Revenge is that acid that destroys the vessel which holds it. We all attract haters as we grow. People will do incredibly horrific things to tear you down. The upper you climb, with more excuses these people start to hate you for your success. They’ll work tirelessly to harm you.


Motivation

Bad experiences are a powerful motivation tool. Anger and bitterness will eventually destroy you. The “I’ll show them” mentality also wears you get into the top. There’s a better way to channel this energy.

Revenge is sometimes not the real motivation. You’re hurt over the betrayal and you want to show the world that what they missed. Using success as a sort of revenge is absolutely about showing them how valuable you're. The folks that hurt you within the past don't seem to be allowed near you and your newfound success.

Failure brings the best in people. Failure could be a natural and normal part of the success process.


Benefits of success as revenge

  • Victory tastes such a lot sweeter after failure.

  • Overcoming fears transform you into a brand new person.

  • Positive thinking reduces negativity.

  • True friends are discovered by witnessing who stuck by you in the worst of times.

  • Success makes us more conscious of what we are capable of.

  • Others begin to speak about your accomplishments.

  • You become a logo of possibility and hope for others.


People who proved success is the best revenge

  • J.K. Rowling- She is a British novelist, best referred to as the author of the Harry Potter Fantasy series. A resignation letter, failed marriage, and a dependent child together with her focus to writing made her the foremost Influential Woman in Britain and by Forbes; she ranked 48th most powerful celebrity of 2007, after the success of Harry Potter.


  • Walt Disney- He was fired from the newspaper company because apparently, he ‘lacked’ creativity! At that time, he started several businesses, but all of them failed. But, his persistence paid off and Motion Pictures in 1928 selected him, and thus, Mickey Mouse was born.


  • Steve Jobs- To run Apple, Steve Jobs recruited John Sculley, Pepsi executive. But, in 1985, Sculley somehow convinced the board to fire Steve. But, after being fired, Steve built the NeXT Company, and later he got the control of Apple again and the rest is history.


  • Michael Jordan- American basketball player, MJ was once rejected by his high school basketball team. People still can’t believe that the person, who is regarded to be the most effective player of all time, was once not selected in the team.


  • Sania Mirza- The renowned Indian tennis player, Sania Mirza was targeted because of her clothes; which were considered to be un-Islamic and against culture as per the view of many Muslim scholars. She was also targeted because of her marriage with Pakistani cricketer, Shoaib Malik. But, in 2015 she became the first Indian to win a Women’s Doubles finals at the Wimbledon grand slam and also awarded Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna for her achievements.


  • Arunabh Kumar- The person that launched THE VIRAL FEVER, TVF was once rejected by the corporate, MTV as they thought that his content-rich idea wasn't that good. But, he started his venture and now has over 1,000,000 subscribers to his YouTube channel.


  • Brian Acton- Brian Acton together with Jan Koum co-founded one among the foremost popular social messenger, Whatsapp. They worked for Yahoo for 9 years. But in 2007, they left Yahoo and took a year off. Later on, when they applied for employment in Facebook; they were rejected. Brian was rejected at Twitter too! But, later on, they went on to make the $19 billion worth Whatsapp.

People who achieve big in their lives don't live an easy life. The sole difference between normal people and them is moving on, in spite of whatever situation may be. They never choose a straight forward path. All of them keep moving despite facing the obstacles and go on to become achievers.

You alone determine how your story will end. Christine Miller once said, “At any given moment in life, you can say: “This isn't how the story is going to end”. Our biggest problem in life is self-awareness, the flexibility to realize who we are and what we are truly capable of doing.

Do not let someone’s actions or attitude stop you from enjoying your life. Whether it's in friendships, marriage, work, family, studies, or business, continue to be the best, ignore the negativity, and choose happiness over stress.




Disclaimer:-

The opinions expressed in this article are the personal opinions of the author. The facts and opinions appearing in the article do not reflect the views of Light de Literacy and LDL does not assume any responsibility or liability for the same.




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